5 signs your partners is cheating

Here are just 5 signs your partner is cheating on you, don't you deserve better?

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By Fatz

Ok lets be honest we can never be 100% sure that our partner is cheating without proof, but in my experience here’s 5 signs they are cheating. When you notice any of these signs or get suspicious then tactfully and slowly try and find proof. But remember paranoia can also ruin perfectly good relationships so don’t go around assuming you’re being cheated on all the time. 

 

That said can you see how I mentioned ‘tactfully’… Thats because in my experiences people just throw around accusations, empty threats of leaving, cause dramas and that can ruin good relationships. You don’t want to ruin a good relationship through either paranoia or the fact you want catch your partner actually cheating because you’ve already made accusations without proof and they’ve now covered it all up.

“My first love broke my heart and cheated all the way through our relationship,  but let’s be clear I’ve cheated on girls also and its fucking horrible. I personally couldn’t cheat on anyone anymore. Your a piece of shit if you choose to cheat” – Fatz 

5 signs your partner is cheating

Firstly suspicious behaviour is how we all think our partner will act and then we’ll catch them through that. But lets face it, your partner could be going through a tough time, hiding someone else secrets, or even just unsure on your relationship. That doesn’t mean they’re cheating on you. What you will notice is these 5 things below:

1. Hidden phone or distanced phone calls so you can’t hear what’s said. Before you start having a go at your other half for taking a call and leaving the room remember if it’s near your birthday or a loud room they probably are not cheating. Let’s not just jump to conclusions.

 

But if they’ve started tilting their screen away from you, new password on their phone, silent mode all the time and the phone always face down or generally won’t leave it laying around unattended, then thats a little suspicious.

2. Deleted things that don’t add up, yep its just gone… Imagine looking through some messages and they don’t make sense because some of it seems to be missing. Yes deleting a whole message thread happens and is the simplest way to get rid off evidence but what about if the person you’re suspicious of talks to you other half often. Work colleague, close friend, etc…

 

If they deleted the whole message thread that would clearly look suspicious, because you know they talk to that person, so they need to delete only the sexual parts. 

 

If you find parts missing to messages or things that clearly don’t make sense then just keep a eye out and look for more evidence because that shit is suspicious. 

3. Out yet you can’t reach them or they vanish at the weekend, yer that winds me up! Its so so suspicious if they go out on benders, getting drunk and vanish for a few days, especially if you know their friends are the type to cheat or encourage cheating. 

 

 

Yes its true we all deserve some down time, some time out with our friends and to unwind. But why would you be in a relationship with someone you make worry, you avoid purposely and generally ignore. If you don’t want to hear from them then break up with the, its that simple. You don’t string someone along picking them up and drop them when you like.

 

We all know in many cases substances are blamed for cheating, you know the usual story “I am sorry babe, I was so drunk”… If this is the case so often and your partner hangs around with negative, toxic people they would be more liable to cheat and that’s horrible but it happens. So if it comes to the weekend or drunk nights and their phone is off or they disappear then you have a right to be suspicious. 

 

4. Social circles play a HUGE part in cheating, no matter how much we like to deny it. You are the average of the 5 people you hang around with in most cases, thats in all aspects of life. Successful people hang around with successful people, losers hang around with other losers, druggies hang around with other druggies, etc.

 

It’s just natural to hang around or associate with those you connect with or have commonalities with. So if your partner hangs around with drug taking, heavy drinking, cheaters, then it’s highly likely they will be the same or very similar. It’s not what you want to hear but it’s just how things are.

 

Good friends if your partner has them would discourage any bad behaviour, they would encourage a healthy relationship and they would encourage your partner to do more positive progressive things. So keep that in mind when you think your partner may be cheating, would their friends encourage it or discourage it…

 

5. Your gut feeling is usually right, as bad as it sounds. 

Is your partner always telling you little stories, little lies, things that don’t add up? Why would they keep lying, why not be honest or truthful with you? 

 

 

This ultimately triggers you gut feeling, your suspicions and that leads to you assuming the worst. Remember little lies are not right and you don’t deserve to hear stories that don’t add up, there’s no need for it. 

 

Listen to your instincts, learn to value yourself and your gut feelings.

Does this all add up?

If your partner has all of these signs, they all make sense, you’ve heard so many stories and lies then your gut instinct is probably right. 

But don’t just jump to conclusions, make sure you get that evidence, be tactful and learn to take control of the situation. Far too often we let the emotions take over, we get angry and then it blows up in our face. 

 

You don’t deserve to be lied to, you don’t deserve to be a second choice, you don’t need to live with secrecy and false hopes.But above all never just jump to conclusions and throw around accusations. This can either ruin a potentially good relationship or it can give your cheating partner a heads up to hide things better. 

 

If you’re suspicious, get your evidence, be subtle, collect your points and be sure. Then find that courage to value yourself, put you first and walk away.  

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